Listening Mothers
Resources
“Each baby is a person from the start and needs to be known by someone.”
--D.W.  Winnicott
This section is geared towards those who would like to do more reading and gain further insight
into what it means to develop an attached, reflective relationship with your child.  

It includes Articles and Recommended Reads.
 

Articles:
By Yaffa Maritz
Parenting for Peace  By Yaffa Maritz M.A., co-founder and clinical director of the
Can I spoil My Child?By Yaffa Maritz M.A., co-founder and clinical director of the
Listening Mothers    

By Diana Mandell
The RedPed Groups for Mothers of Infants and its Development into a Community Service
Program By Diana Mandell, M.Ed

Reflective Parenting
Calming Family Battles with 'Reflective Parenting' by Kristen Dobson
Taking Play Seriously - from the New York Times 3-09
Old Fashioned Play Builds Serious Skills

Other articles of interest
Feelings
Slow Parenting by Lora Shinn
Coping with the Caveman in the Crib
Tips for Getting Baby to Sleep
Oprah Magazine Article
Babies 'show social intelligence'  By Helen Briggs
Daniel Goleman's Introduction to Linda Lantieri's book Building Emotional Intelligence:
Techniques to Cultivate Children's Inner Strength
An Understanding of Attachment
Old Fashioned Play Builds Serious Skills
Meeting the Social and Emotional Needs of Children
Crying for Comfort: Distressed Babies Need to be Held By Althea Solter, Ph.D.
Of Human Bonding By David Brooks


Recommended Reads:

Title                                                                          Author

The Myth of the Perfect Mother                                Jane Swigart
Fatherneed                                                               Kyle Pruett
The Blue Jay’s Dance: A Birth Year                        Louise Erdrich
A Good-Enough Parent                                            Bruno Bettleheim
Becoming Attached                                                   Robert Karen
Understanding Your Child’s Temperament               William Carey
What Children Learn From Their Parents Marriage    Judith Siegel
Babies and Their Mothers                                           D.W. Winnicott
The Birth of a Mother                                                 Daniel Stern, et al
The Good Marriage                                                     Judith S. Wallerstein, et al
Our Babies, Our Selves                                             Meredith Small
The Irreducible Needs of Children                             T. Berry Branzelton, et al        
The Mask of Motherhood                                         Susan Maushart
Touchpoints                                                               T. Berry Brazelton
The Emotional Life of a Toddler                                Alicia Liberman
Magic Years                                                               Selma Fraiberg
The Yale Child Study Center Guide to                         Linda Mayes, et al
Understanding Your Child
Mother Shock                                                            Andrea Buchanan
A Life’s Work                                                           Rachel Cusk
Raising Your Spirited Child                                          Mary Kurcinka
Mothering Without a Map                                          Kathryn Black
Mothering the New Mother                                       Sally Placksin
Women’s Moods                                                       Deborah Sichel, et al
Parenting from the Inside Out                                     Daniel Siegel, et al
Becoming Parents                                                       Pamela Jordan, et al
The Vital Touch                                                        Sharon Heller
Becoming the Parent You Want to Be                         Laura Davis, et al
No-Cry Sleep Solutions                                             Elizabeth Pantley
Sleepless Days                                                           Susan Resnick
This isn't What I Expected                                         Karen Kleiman, et al        


Books for Children:

Owl Babies                                                                   Martin Waddell,
LLama LLama Red Pajama                                          Dewdney,
Owly                                                                           Thaler